All of us have the power to make a difference in the lives of others. For me it starts with the quality of your communication. The way you communicate and relay information to others directly affects the perception people have of you and the way they perceive you. The level of your communication will also impact your level of influence and leadership.
Whether you are a parent, business owner or coach your influence will come from how you communicate and the quality of the actions you take. If you are wanting something different to happen in your life or with your team or even your family, start by serving them. Change the way you communicate with them and change what you are giving them. If you want love you must give love. If you want obedience, you must give obedience. The people you want influence over must respect you.
Respect is always earned. Sometimes in the beginning of a relationship and sometimes later on. Greet, give and show respect and you will see this reciprocated. Once you have this don't ever lose it. It's terribly hard to get back.
If you are looking to make a difference. Look at the changes you must make first. Challenge yourself to be the communicator you see yourself as. Challenge your level of influence by serving others first. Show change and you will accomplish change in others and in you.
Be blessed everyone.
Jason Beeding